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@ 2006-01-25 - 19:14:53
LUCKNOW:APPRECIATING 'CONDOM CULTURE' POWERED BY WEST
ARVIND K PANDEY
I agree that Lucknow police was unnecessarily hars with gay persons running a ' gay racket ' on the internet . However , I still feel that there is need to view this issue in a wider perspective . How can failure to imbibe aberrations of human nature leads to creation of ' backward-looking social morality '. Even the mindless criticism of certain progresssive banners regarding Delhi High Court's insistence to maintain the validity of Section 377 of IPC , an act which outlaws against the order of nature , is wholly out of tune with psyche of this nation . Well, neither I am against the freedom of mature individuals nor I am in favour of moral policing their personal lives , which is blatant violation of privacy. But moot question involved here is that whether exceptions can be treated at par with general phenomenons associated with the culture. How can something be impressed upon the whole mass in the name of progessive spirit if at very first sight such acts appear embarrassing to rthem ? How many those advocating homosexuality would like their wards to enter in one such relationship ? None. Even Shoba De who has churned out trash in this regard feels uncomfortable when asked what be her reaction if their daughters come to pursue the same line of action as charted by their lesbian characters in her novels . I wonder why can't this generation be progressive where it really matters ; for instance wiping out ill effects which are borne out of intellects limitations , kill the ills emanating from human's selfishness to amass wealth by mercilessly trampling the beings of weaker souls and checkmate cruel merans aimed at crushing another preson's identity in a mad rush to make a place for oneslf . Instead of doing so we Indians have perfrectioned the art of accepting the ' borrowed ideals ' to blow the trumpet of progressiveness , finding it safer to become the dumping ground of West . Our drawing rooms today have become godown , better call them showrooms , of MNCs. No doubt in past India has been home of such bizzare acts but mind you the rationales governing then have confined them to limited class , who in no way were associated with mainstream afffairs . Just see the result of dhoom(read dominance ) of so-called ' sexual boom '. My radio keeps popping up safe sex ads after every three minutes , the newspapers have gone berserk in inscribing our conciousness that sex-education in schools or , for that matter , condoms in tiffins , is alone the way to prevent future generation from the clutches of HIV/AIDS .Remeber this ' sex education circus', has its origin in progressive spirits , call them devil's advocate , open call to make way for licentious relationship in matters related with sexuality . Today these same guys are totally at their wits end to curb the growth of HIV/AIDS . It's pity that public memory is so short when it comes to intercept the consequences of folloeing short sighted visions in past . I am also surprised as to how come progressiveness has bercome synonomous with bizzare approval to outrageous act like group sex etc . Why can't these proclaimers display the same progessive mannerism in other aerenas of life with same ease . Without hesitation I can state that bulldozing the limitations dividing one human from another in name of societal norms , often resting on ignorance , would lead to creation of better progressive society rather than making way to wild sexual orientation.Lastly , let me confess that a healthy relationship between man and woman puts to rest all the needs of experimenting with ' fiery calls ' of subconciousness ' .It's mostly who have failed to build an intimate relationshoip with a fair sex give way to unnatural realtionship. I have no objections to such relationship but not without this revealation that these unnatural relationship can never act as the bedrock of proggressive society.